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Feel a rush of loneliness for quite a while, for the whole day, so I reckon I will come here and speak whatever is in my mind now. Then again, I am quite sure it's the hormones in action because it's the period of the month, what's more I have been having cramps for the whole evening. Quite sure I'll be feeling all bubbly again soon hahaha HOPEFULLY, I think also might be because it has been days since I saw Shermy.

So, this Friday marks the end of Week 6 and tadaa! Recess week is hereeee but even though the thought of the week brings happiness, the cohort jolly well knows it's the time to clear up shit and get ready for the 2nd part of the trimester. This Friday also marks......... The THIRD adventure to HHN6 with Shermy!!! Second time with Piak and KL. FIRST WITH JOEY LIM TWINNY. HAHAHA

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Pictures kop-ed from IG from screenshots lol. Don't think I'll ever get sick and tired of HHN or just USS itself. LOOKING FORWARD TO FUTURE HHNs OF PAYING TO SCARE MYSELF and even after I have kids I'll bring them up with the courage to accompany me to HHNs lolll

Remembering like 8-10 years ago, when I blog I just pour everything out along while thinking, and currently at this moment, I envy my ability to do that back then hahaha. Right now it is never wise to not consider who will chance upon the blog. Remembering the days when no one will make a fuss out of a thinking out loud blog post, whereas every single thing is blown up nowadays when it is not a tad significant to anyone else's life *roll eyes*

But anyway my point is, I am curious to know what's bothering me currently through writing but apparently it doesn't just flow out naturally like how I thought it would LOL
Upon the end of writing this post, I shall go and work on a doc and ppt that are due tomorrow. (I guess that means I will drag finishing this post hahaha) I didn't want to start work with a troubled mind.

Ok maybe something to discuss with invisible audience here, or rather with myself - do you still think twice or thrice before speaking to someone, with the mindset of not wanting to say something that might offend/bore/sadden the other party? I am not exactly one that speaks my mind without thinking, and in fact, I use different tones, gestures, body language and level of enthusiasm in my voice lolol when I talk to different groups or individuals. I think that's why I find it tiring to talk to people nowadays and one of the best things I can get is to take the train home alone while listening to songs I have played for at least a 100 times because, I rarely update my phone playlist. Speaking of that, I shall download some songs later too.
I guess that it has really became a phase whereby I gradually listen to lesser and lesser new songs, and play songs from the past that feel really nostalgic, classic example being  最熟悉的陌生人 LOL, a must-sing song in the past whenever I go to K with aiai and laopo.
So back to the topic. Sometimes I find it pointless and will scold myself stupid when I have to think for an unreasonable number of seconds or minutes before replying to someone (text message) because it's like, why am I trying so hard to think of words such that it will make myself more "pleasant" to the other party. Maybe this is just me lah (I know a lot of things is not just me LOL but sometimes after I tell my opinions to someone, they'll pause and be like, oh you feel like that ah, I don't yadayada), it is not as bad as I make it sound here LOL because it's part of life and socializing ma right and it's not like one whole conversation everything I send have to think.

But, I really miss the times or I really love it when I can just spurt out whatever is in my mind or don't even go through my mind to another individual without getting judged too much (judge is ok lolol), I think that is da bezzz sia. At a time like this and I mean time like 12.21am as it is now, I feel like going to Woodlands Waterfront like how I used to go there alone whenever I feel like, without worrying for my own safety lol -- then again since when I worry for my safety so much ah? Scared suddenly got flasher or like if got guy walk past at night I'll be super alert and skeptical LOL. But anyway now I am at Yishun and I couldn't possibly go to Woodlands Waterfront although Yishun dam is an alternative hahaha but things are just not the same anymore -- not that it is a bad thing. Maybe, perhaps after I have access to a more convenient way of travelling *wink*

A lot of things I have mentioned in this and recent blog posts might be cliche but I think that's why personal blogging is practically dead now because people scared whoever will see the post will judge ma. I think that's one of the reasons I went away for so long and blogged so little. But, no matter how infrequent I'll be blogging, this blog won't die ok like even if the theme changes or my link changes also won't HAHA. I sort of regret deleting my very first blog since primary school. AT LEAST my blog with posts from secondary school times  is still alive phew and it is always good to read back whatever retarded stuff I have written before, be it really good or bad memories.

I think I feel so much better now? LOL wonders of blogging. Shall go serious mode while getting music therapy with my fav old chinese mpop songs lolz goodnight whoever is there x